Lobster Mate
Sea what you’re missing.
Works for you,
not against.
Match Pool Score
(Calculator-first, 2 minutes) See how your preferences shape your pool — and what to tweak for better outcomes.
Verified Waitlist
(Quality in, quality out) Phone OTP + Email OTP to keep the pool real. Optional higher verification tiers unlock earlier cohorts.
Curated Introductions (not swipes)
We send a small number of high-quality introductions each week — designed for real conversations and matches in your city.
Limited weekly recommendations (quality > quantity)
Mutual opt-in introductions
Pace controls (slow / balanced / fast)
Your preferences, your control
Set boundaries without turning dating into a checklist. You control what matters, and we keep the experience respectful.
Clear dealbreakers (kept limited and fair)
Distance + schedule preferences
Privacy controls (share what you want, when you want)
Cohorts open city-by-city
We open cohorts only when there’s enough verified density to make great matches — so you don’t waste time.
Lane-wise cohorts
Waitlist priority based on verification tier
Join the Verified Waitlist
Be first in line when cohorts open in your city. Verification keeps the pool premium and real.
Trust is built in, from the ground up.
We built Lobster Mate to feel safe by default — with consent-first intros, verification tiers, and clear community standards.
Consent-first communication
No unsolicited messages. Mutual opt-in before any chat opens.
Verification tiers
Start with OTPs. Upgrade to social and DigiLocker verification when you’re ready.
Questions & Answers
Learn more about Lobster Mate or contact us at hello@lobstermate.ai
Start with Lobster Mate today
Join the Verified Waitlist